New Year’s Resolution for Love
Since it is 2013 already, let’s start the year right. And yes, I’m using the third person for your consideration.
New beginnings. Fresh start. Let’s choose a love that is conflict-free especially for us guys. Seriously, whose loss is it? The ratio of male vs. female in the whole world is not even with females dominating us. Let’s make them hunt us and let’s not go crazy with the idea of falling in love. We’ll find the right person. It’s a cliché but patience is a virtue. Look at me, I’m 23 already but I still don’t have any girlfriend. As if having one is a requirement in life. If ever we get ourselves in a relationship, let’s just make the most out of it.
Let’s not wait for a love that we’re not sure of. I mean, I know it’s worth taking the risk to wait but it’s an ocean out there. Let’s catch a bigger, fatter, yummier fish. For practical reason’s sake guys! In love, we invest a lot including money, time, effort and most importantly, emotions. It’s not bad to resort to traditional courting methods but there should be an assurance that courting a certain girl will reap us rewards. It’s not practical to test the water only finding yourself drowning because you don’t have further knowledge that it’s 20 feet deep.
Start a quest. Conquer the world. Party hard and meet new people. Let’s just be careful and let’s always put our guards up. The world is full of shitty people who have the capacity to hurt us. Learn how to be open to and be closed at the same time (I know it sounds weird, right?).
Finally, don’t be afraid to love a friend. I mean, friends are the safest people to have a romantic relationship with. With friends, we have a strong foundation and we really know them. We can also use this as a strategy like befriending someone first and courting her later on. Just be ready to get friendzoned (in Ramon Bautista’s term) if it did not work.
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